When I was 11yrs old a family friend use to come and drink kava at home. The day I told my family about my abuse by this man no one believed me. They acted as if I was the wrong one. I was never heard. Today I have 2 girls,… Read more “When I was 11yrs old”

I was molested at a very young age and because of that, it affected my decision making when it came to my relationships. I grew up hearing that being a Virgin was a sacred thing especially in our Fijian culture and because of my situation I allowed men to use… Read more “I was molested at a”

After a few years, I see the true colours of my husband. I hear words that I didn’t hear from my home. I was mistreated and everything was getting worse. Our small family nearly broke up at that time. I’m not working, I’m a fulltime mum. We have three sons.… Read more “After a few years I see”

At around the age of 10 or 11 the caretaker of the school molested me. It first happened when me and my younger brother were loitering around the school on a particular Saturday. It was a sweltering day and we wanted to ask the handyman if we could swim at… Read more “At around the age of”

I was sexually molested between the ages of five and 17 years old. Those were the darkest years of my life. My stepfather was an alcoholic and a violent man. I remember whenever he came back from a kava or alcohol drinking session, he would come into my sister and… Read more “I was sexually molested between”

I was sexually abused by a cousin at a very young age. I remember between the ages of three to eight years old I was abused by different people. I did not tell my aunty, but they saw what happened. The police came but I was too young to remember.… Read more “I was sexually abused by”

I have recently “finally” left an abusive marriage after covering up and hiding it from family and friends for 3 years. Many bruises later and I received my final hit before leaving. Was it easy – no – being raised in a traditional’strict’ Christian upbringing- in church divorce was spoken… Read more “I have recently “finally” left”

I was sexually abused by a cousin at a very young age. I remember between the ages of three to eight years old I was abused by different people. I did not tell my aunty, but they saw what happened. The police came but I was too young to remember.… Read more “I was sexually abused by”

To begin with…. My Story is I would Say Was Tormenting to me for some years but it came a time that I would have to accept and Move on. I was raped when I was 16 yrs old from an older guy that we go to church together…He took… Read more “Accept and move on”