I was molested at a very young age and because of that, it affected my decision making when it came to my relationships. I grew up hearing that being a Virgin was a sacred thing especially in our Fijian culture and because of my situation I allowed men to use me because I had thought to myself that I was never gonna get married because I was not a Virgin..
I degraded myself just because I was molested at a very young age and knowing how the society thinks especially when it comes to traditional values, I always felt embarrassed and disgusted with myself.
As I grew older, I figured it is not my fault that I am not a Virgin but it was my molesters fault for having a sick mind to do whatever they did. Virgin or not, I should know my worth and give myself more credit and appreciate myself more