This is an all too common saying that we speak to a person who has messed up and now they are reaping the consequences and there’s not really any hope for the situation
This is a lie!!!
Yes there will be consequences for some of our bad decisions, but that does not mean our life is over. That does not mean we must marry the man. Or stay in that relationship. It does not mean that this is the way I’ll always be. On the cross Jesus gave us a way out. There is always hope. As we confess & repent, He redeems. As we go to him in humility, He can rebuild our lives and our future. We don’t need to punish ourselves for our past failures.
Please don’t ever let anyone tell you there’s no hope, you don’t have to lie in that bed. You can pick yourself up and walk in the purpose that God has intended for you!